"Be the kind of person who isn’t afraid to ask someone if they are okay twice if they say they are, but look like they aren’t. Be the kind of person who smiles at people even if they don’t smile back. Be the kind of person you wished for when no one was there for you. Be the kind of person who is brave enough to stand alone in a crowd for what is right. Be that person because we need more people like that in the world. Be that person because people like that are rarer than the rarest diamonds and gold."
"being addicted to something is bad but being addicted to someone is worse. you see the something you are addicted to will never leave you but the someone who you are addicted to can very easily decide to leave you. how sad it is to be addicted to something that can very well disappear without your control."
"Some people bring out the worst in you, others bring out the best, and then there are those remarkably rare, addictive ones who just bring out the most. Of everything. They make you feel so alive that you’d follow them straight into hell, just to keep getting your fix"
"Love her.
Love her at 6pm when she’s all dreamy and lovable.
Love her at 3am when she’s all scared and crying.
Love her.
Hug her when she’s feeling low even when she pushes you away she just want to have you more closer.
Kiss her nose while making her coffee with only two sugars how she likes it and tell her it reminds you of her beautiful and mysterious eyes.
Read to her when she’s sleepy and tell her she’s the kind of girl authors write books about.
Listen to the words she doesn’t say and hear every whisper of her.
Grab her hands when she’s shaking because God that’s when she needs you the most.
Let her cry, let her scream, let her break things, let her feel the lowest and then hug her, hug her and let her cry on your shoulder.
Show her that you care, show her that you love her even when she’s mad, even when she’s down, even when she’s high.
Kiss her slow while she kisses you with hunger, let her take you, let her push you on the couch, let her loose her breath while kissing you.
When she says she doesn’t love you, tell her that you love her even more harder.
And love her, oh how much she needs your love.
Don’t try to figure her out, just be there and love her."
"I hope you find someone that
mindlessly strokes your legs and
massages your back and plays with
your hair and I hope that you feel like
You’re home when you look at them."
"- Buy lace underwear and model it around at home. You’re a goddess, own it.
- Realize the fact that if somebody can’t see your virtues doesn’t it mean you don’t have them.
- Pamper yourself. Fill the bathtub with hot water, throw in a bath bomb, jump in, play some music and enjoy. Exfoliate your skin, wash your hair, use a hair mask. Don’t dare to leave the bathroom till you’ve polished every single inch of your body. Try to polish your soul too.
- Remember situations you faced in the past. Realize they’re not a big deal anymore. That bad anxiety you had two months ago suddenly seem so small you might just want to laugh for being so silly, and now it’s over all those tears you cried are the most pointless thing ever. This will happen over and over again, so next time you face a problem remember in a year from now it will be insignificant.
- Go for a walk on your own. Walk aimlessly without a finish line. Come back home when you’re tired, no need to hurry.
- Doodle. Maybe you think you’re doing not so great at living but your watercolors skills are still on point.
- Buy yourself flowers. This one needs no explanation.
- Clean bed sheets are always a good idea.
- Stare at yourself in a mirror after a long nap and admire how glowing, beautiful and dreamy your face looks. Naps work wonders.
- In fact, stare at yourself on a mirror daily. Each time compliment on something. Maybe today you like your hair but don’t enjoy the shape of your lips, but that’s ok because tomorrow you’ll be delighted at how cute your smile is even tho your hair might be a mess. Learn to love you.
- Bake cookies just to eat with your fingers the remaining cookie dough. Everybody knows that’s the best part of baking.
- Forgive yourself."
I was in the room when my mum died in June and I heard a person say just recently that death is ugly and I’ve never been so offended in my whole entire life